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A wedding does not to be extravagant.

Personally, I went for a simple wedding at a golf clubhouse that provides a unique scenic view of greenery to the guests.

How to organize a micro wedding a full wedding, a micro wedding should focus on what really matters to you and your spouse, while meeting your budget and timing constraints. Organizing a micro wedding set lower expectations from others on the grandness while making it an intimate wedding. 

I had no regrets about my simple wedding because we are simple people and our families do not require anything special. Below is a simple comparison between traditional weddings and micro weddings for you to consider what you need to prepare for your micro wedding.

Comparison	Traditional Wedding	Micro Wedding
Theme	Depends can be elaborate, long-drawn (for a couple to meet or take a photo with all)	Intimate with special touches
Guest List	Friends, Families, Relatives of families, and extended families	Limited to Close family and friends
Price	Expensive	Affordable
Wedding Venue	Limited to a bigger venue like a hotel room	Flexible, given the small guest list
Wedding Cake	Included, sometimes as a mock cake for ceremony cutting since few eat wedding cake now	Not required at all
Wedding Car	Yes, usually part of package	Can ask from friends with simple decoration
Food	Expected, with a few courses	Good to have, but not necessary
Wedding Photos	Specialized photographer and videographer for the day	Not required, can be your sibling or friend
Personalized Invitation Cards	Unlikely and just printed in bulk	Possible since guest list are small but not necessary
Time required to Organize	Months of work without a wedding planner to coordinate all parties	Minimal, compared to traditional wedding

Based on brides.com, you can expect the cost of a micro wedding to be over 50 percent less than that of a traditional wedding with the highest end of the range falling at around $10,000.

How do I plan a small wedding fast

The fastest marriage to plan a small wedding is to

• Decide on the bare minimal guest list both you and your spouse can accept. You need to know how many guests are expected when you look for a venue. As limiting guests are difficult because everyone is good to have, you could try to categorize them into “Must-have” (e.g. family and perhaps closest friends). The rest will be either “Good-To-Have” (e.g. existing colleagues, friends) and Maybe (e.g. ex-colleagues, acquaintances) and it is normal to keep changing the list as you discussed on the suitability or compare with your spouse.
• Choose your preferred timing. A noon timing is easier if you do not have many events to in the morning (e.g. some loved gate-crashing or traditional formality that parent requires). A night wedding usually leaves more time for the formalities but little time for you and your spouse at end of the day.
• Find a micro wedding venue that had previous experience in organizing events (this will co than choosing a location and decorating yourself, but really save you lots of time and effort in getting the venue decoration). The venue must cater to your must-have guest list minimally.
• Ensure the venue allow flexibility if you are charged per person (e.g. due to catering food). Guests who confirmed but cannot make it on the actual day for various reasons (e.g. emergency, sickness) will always happen. The venue should allow finalizing the list as late as the day before (if they are charging you food on a personal basis).
• Use a Google Form to collect the RSVP of your guests if it exceeds 30. This will save you time tallying the confirmed guest list. 
• Find friends for help (e.g. take photograph on your actual day, design invitation cards, borrowing a wedding car and getting it decorated, logistic car for moving things will be useful too). You will be surprised by how helpful people are even if you are not close to them. People really want you to have a blissful marriage and don’t mind helping when asked.

In terms of formality, marriage is just a marriage license with the signatures of you and your spouse and various parties like officiant or witnesses (although a few states allow common-law marriage without documents). 

However, the law of different states differs greatly. Many states require 1 to 6 days to pass between the granting of the license and the marriage ceremony. Some required the officiant or couple then files for a certified copy of the marriage license and a marriage certificate with the appropriate authority. Some states also have a requirement that a license is filed within a certain time after its issuance, typically 30 or 60 days, following which a new license must be obtained.

Remember that wedding is the start of the journey, not the end.

Efforts have been made to get the information as accurate and updated as possible. If you found any incorrect information with credible source, please send it via the contact us form
Sky Hoon
He is happily married and have 1 child. He went through the pre marriage counseling and found it useful and wished to share to others in their marriages

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When you are on the verge of the divorce, you can do lots of things to turn your marriage around.

Every marriage is not the same, and a couple will love each other for some time. Finally, they are supposed to hit a rough patch sooner or later in life.

A 2018 study shared that a common enemy can bring comfort during uncertainty.

You can save your relationship if you face the harsh reality and future together.

Marriage can only last long if both wife and husband have the same intentions and plans. If you want to get things back on track, you need to turn around things quickly. So in this article, you will find out what was the one thing that turned your marriage around. 

What to Do To Turn Around Your Marriage?

The divorce process usually has five stages, and you need to turn around each stage as soon as possible to save your relationship. 

• Dissatisfaction 

When you develop a sense of disappointment about how your relationship is going and how you feel when you are around your partner. When the spark is gone out of the relationship, then it becomes flat. When everything becomes flat, criticism will creep in your everyday actions and conversations. When you regularly find yourself disappointed and see a flat relationship, it’s not a small thing. 

During this time, both of you need help from someone because you can try to change this flat pattern and bring spark in a relationship. The worst thing couples do is they shut their eyes and keep walking on a dangerous road. They believe that things will get magically fixed themselves. But most of the time, it doesn’t happen. 

How to turn it around to save your marriage?

Turning around is never an easy job. You will have to put the same energy into your love that you did at the start, increasing awareness of your relationship vulnerabilities, building generosity of spirit towards one another, and create a shared focus on connecting. The best thing you can do get out of dissatisfaction before it’s too late. Stop blaming and criticizing each other and start a couple of counseling earlier rather than later. So, in this way, you can turn your marriage around. 

• Emotional Erosion 

At this point, you stop caring about your partner, and the worst thing you do is, you don’t try to improve your communication and closeness. The distance between the two keep on increasing, but you don’t pay attention. At this stage, couples hope that things will get fix themselves. So, emotional erosion is never a good thing. 

How to turn it around to save your marriage?

When you have less interest in the relationship, the more resistance you will face when you want to turn around your marriage. The first step you have to take is to start caring about your relationship. If you can involve some professional at this stage, it can be the best idea. If your partner is not willing for regular counseling, you can start it on your own. Even if it doesn’t work in the end, at least you can say that I have everything to save this relationship. You will be able to move forward in your life in a much healthier way. 

• Loneliness

When you see your relationship trajectory, and you would realize that your relationship is fading. At this stage, other interests matter, such as children, friends, sports, work, and even other things become more important for you than the relationship. So, you end up losing a relationship. 

How to turn it around?

If you want to save a relationship, act now. It’s your time to show some energy, love, empathy, and teaming up again to save your relation.  Your relation shouldn’t reach this stage, but if it reaches there, try to find a solution and fight for each other. You can turn to one another with a shared focus and care. If you’re trying your best to turn things around, but you haven’t had much success, then it’s not your fault. Only one person can’t do it. You can only turn around your marriage if you both make an effort for it. 

• The Fork in the Road

It is the fourth stage, and in this, only a single street meets the road, but the issue is you guys are on different paths. Now, you will have to decide to drive the car together. If you can’t do that, you will have to travel alone. It’s your responsibility to choose your path with dignity, and you can prevent fallout with maturity and grace. 

During this stage, people can survive divorce, but they keep on blaming, abusing, and unkindness can cause significant damage to your relationship. When you are angry, panicked, hurt, or lost, it is not easy to stay in control. 

How to turn it around?

When you behave in any way other than kindness, it will hurt your relationship. Break-up is never easy. So now is the time to get things back on track. You both need to support each other and drive in the same car and on the same path. What was the one thing that turned your marriage around? It can be a thing that can turn your marriage around. 

• Mourning

It is the last stage of the divorce process. Remember, if you don’t want to be in that relationship, you can give it away. Try to understand what went wrong? The end of a marriage means changes to home and family forever. You can survive and thrive all over again. You can face this difficult time with maturity. Focus on learning so that you don’t make these mistakes again in the future. So it is another way that can help to turn your marriage around. 

Conclusion

What was the one thing that turned your marriage around? It depends on the people. For some people, one thing can work well and for the others, other things can do the job. So you can’t say that there was only one thing that turned your marriage around. So, stay away from negativity and live a happy married life. 

The first year of marriage is always hard, and no marriage can be perfect. Couples face lots of different challenges, and it can lead them to divorce.

Now, the point is how couples can live a happy life? How can they deal with the first year? We have 8 tips to survive the first year of marriage together:

1. Put Away Your Phone
2. A Happy Married Life Takes A Village
3. Keep All Your Screens Out of Your Bedroom
4. Get Out of Expectations
5. Talk About Finances
6. Keep a List of Good Moments
7. Try to Find Happiness in Small Moments
8. Don’t Forget Romance.

You can make your 1st year of marriage remarkable by doing little good things. You can face challenges together. Both of you can create good and happy moments. So, never take your relationship to the worst stage, that is, divorce. 

8 Tips for the First Year of Marriage

You might not find so many people offering the first year of marriage advice, but we are here to help you. Follow the below-given advice for the first year of marriage to live a happy married life. 

• Put Away Your Phone

Phones can create lots of problems. When you are using a phone, you are not listening to your spouse. You are not paying attention to their talking. Married life isn’t easy, but you can make it easy by following the simple practices. You can simply put your phone away and talk to each other. It will make your spouse feel good. Your spouse will think that you are giving him/her more important than your phone. When we are using the phone we are ignoring our partner. It can’t be a good thing for a healthy relationship. 

• A Happy Married Life Takes A Village

Married life is all about two people. You can’t make it happy if the other one is not interested. It takes efforts from both sides, and you can’t make it happier alone. If you want your spouse to listen to you, talk to you, forgive you, give you time, and spend quality time with you, you will have to do the same. You can’t expect only one person to do all the things. You will have to play your part. When you both are making efforts, you can live a happy and prosperous married life. 

• Keep All Your Screens Out of Your Bedroom

As a new couple, we don’t understand which things are right and wrong for us. We came back from the office and started watching TV or movie on the laptop. In short, we are not giving the proper time and importance to our spouse. So, keep all the distractions away from your bedroom. Make your bedroom a comfortable place where you can spend a better-married sex life. When both of you are looking at your computer and mobile screens instead of looking at each other. Keep your bedroom clean from all distractions. Spend time together, and it will help you to feel good. 

• Get Out of Expectations

We have seen that most marriages fail because couples expect too much from each other. Too many expectations are never good for any relationship. There are two possibilities, one is spouse can try to meet your expectations, or your partner might want to get rid of you. So, if you are doing this, you must be ready for the worst situation as well. Keep your expectations limited, and be grateful for what you have. Believe me; if you can do this, you can live your entire life happily. 

• Talk About Finances

Married life is always full of challenges. Finance is one of the serious issues that can lead to divorce. Talk to each other and share your bank account details and your debts. Make sure that you are dealing with the financial crisis together. Set your long-term goals and make a plan on how you can achieve them. You can keep a record of your spending, and you wouldn’t waste your money when you have financial goals. The same financial goals can prevent you from serious conflicts. 

• Keep a List of Good Moments

What does it mean? It might seem ridiculous, but actually, it’s not. Note down all the happy moments you spend together so far. Whenever you are in an angry mood, try to remember those moments, and those small and big moments can bring a smile on your face. You wouldn’t find too many big moments during your first year of married life, but you can still make a list of small good moments. Live those little moments, and make your day special. 

• Try to Find Happiness in Small Moments

When we get married, we set lots of high expectations. Setting high expectations isn’t bad, but when you go to a new house and start a new life, you face lots of new challenges. You might want to go for a honeymoon to Paris; yes, you can if your spouse is financially stable. Try to keep your expectations low, and whatever small moments you have, try to joy them. First-year of married life is filled with some rosy moments and also with difficult times. You will have to deal with both. Prepare yourself and enjoy every happy moment of your life. Don’t wait for big happiness; enjoy the moment that you have in hand. 

• Don’t Forget Romance.

Romance is a way of showing love. Keep all the distractions away from the bedroom and dining table. Share some romantic words and feelings. Remember, you will have to do this throughout your married life. If you are not romantic, at least do it for the first year of marriage. 

Conclusion

Every new couple wants to get the first year of marriage advice. Sometimes, you can get it from your friends or elder ones. Don’t worry if you don’t have such friends. You can read this article, as it contains all the tips that can help you to face the challenge of the first year of married life. Sometimes little things can do the magic. No marriage is perfect, and everyone faces a hard time, especially, during the first year. So, follow the above given the first year of marriage advice and live a happy life. 

Ever returned home from a first date all excited, thinking you’ve met someone fascinating, only for the person to ghost you after, leaving you wondering what went wrong?

Chances are, you might have inadvertently sent the wrong signal!

Here’s a list of things you might want to take note to avoid for future dates:

#1 Tardy On a First Date

When dates do not show up on time than the agreed time, it does kick the date off to a bad start! The action alone shows disrespect for time and a lack of sincerity in the meeting.

It’s probably common and acceptable to be running late for 5 to 10 minutes for good reasons. Any more than that, and it might not send the right first message. 

#2 Sloppy Image and First Impression

Dating can be a great experience, but it can also be frustrating if your date has a sloppy appearance. A sloppy appearance can turn people off during the dating process, leading to less interest and eventual rejection.

There is much truth to the 5-second rule – All it takes is 5 seconds for someone to form a first impression of you.

Decide what you want that impression to be. 

There have been two arguments put forth –

1. I’m going to be dressed presentably because this is the first impression, and I want to start on the right foot, or
2. let me show off my worst side and see if they accept me for me because whoever I end up dating will eventually see me in comfortable clothes anyway.

Both strategies have possibly worked with dates, though perhaps striking a balance between comfort and dressing presentably can co-exist. Making an effort to clean up is something dates will appreciate and are going to interpret as a promising signal.

#3 Bad Ex Talk 

This is a very delicate topic and one that will very likely come up in initial chats because people would want to know what happened in the last relationship – When, how, and why it ended? 

Potential red flags that can turn you off include dissing the ex, showing much anger when the topic is brought up, getting defensive when asked, feeling a great deal of sadness, and/or even going into too much detail on what went down. 

All the other party needs to know are quick facts, preferably told to them in a neutral or even bored tone. That shows people you’re truly over the person, and that your history is exactly where it should be – In the past.

You’ll even be earning brownie points here because you’re also demonstrating that even though it’s not a topic that concerns your present, you’re happy to be transparent and open with them. 

It’s a fine line to tow indeed.

Show too much emotion, and it’s going to be glaringly obvious to anyone that you’re not over the ex(es). 

No one wants to be your backup. Confident, attractive people are well-aware of their worth, and will not hesitate to drop a date who remains hung up on their ex. They’ll simply move on to find someone who has emotional space for a new relationship.

#4 Talking Too Much About Yourself 

We’ve all probably met such people – The ones who can’t stop talking about themselves (hello, egomaniacs). This is a huge turn-off. 

If you ever slipped into this space, whether because of nerves or not, pause. Show interest in the other person and listen. Have a two-way conversation; no one signed up to be a paid therapist on a first date.

#5 Airing Dirty Laundry 

Some people are open and honest, and then some are overly open and honest.

First dates are meant to be fun and allow two people to get to know each other. Innocent flirtations, a slight touch of the hand, butterflies in the stomach, all of that buzz.

This isn’t the time to be airing the dirty laundry of your family members, or whoever you wish to gossip about. That can come much later. 

#6 Expressing Resentment/ Hatred 

As with recounting any life stories, do your best to leave negative emotions at the door. It might be too heavy for a first date; cursing and swearing aren’t going to give your dates (especially the ones you wish to see again) the best impression of you. 

Bear in mind, that your dates do not know you well enough yet to give you the benefit of doubt. Let them get to slowly know you first for the lovely person you are.

#7 Rude to Service Staff 

Seeing how your date mistreats a service staff is a no-no. 

If you’re the offending party, do rethink this attitude, not just to score a first date, but to realize that everyone’s equal, and here to earn a living. Everyone deserves basic respect.

If you’re the party who has witnessed this before, run. It has bad vibes written all over because someday, you might be on the receiving end of that disrespect. It’s never a good sign.

#8 Overly Affectionate 

We’ve all been there where we’re barely getting to get to know the person and the date’s already super touchy, invading our personal space, and causing way too much discomfort. 

You do not want to be the person who makes dates squirm. 

Give it time, and likely if it’s the first date, just allow the conversation to flow. 

If you’ve made any of these mistakes, don’t sweat it too much. We all learn from experience. 

Ultimately, dating in the early phases is meant to be exciting. Be yourself as much as possible, and put your best foot forward. Immerse yourself in the joys and thrills of this stage, for there is no time other than the present to celebrate life!

The first year of marriage is harder than expected for a new couple.

Each person has a different expectation and mindset, so they take time to adjust. We are living in the 21st century, where some couples already cohabited with their partner before marriage to reduce the sudden change.

So does it make any difference? Modern life has also made marriage more complicated than before. When you are newly married, you start to feel about two families, your career, education, and realities of married life. In this article, we will discuss how to get through the first year of marriage?

How to Get Through the First Year of Marriage? Some Tips for Newlyweds

If you can survive your first year of marriage, it can be a great accomplishment. You will have to make a few adjustments to your life. So let’s have a look at some tips for the newlyweds. 

• Try to be on the same page with your spouse, especially on important issues like finances, kids, sex, intimacy, and career. 
• Share your expectations with each other.
• First-year is a transition period, so you will have to make some adjustments.
• There will be some conflicts but go to bed when you are happy.
• Avoid accusing and blaming each other.
• Never consider divorce as an option. Try to get things resolved peacefully. 
• Try to accept the changes in the first year.
• Marriage is all about partnership, so both of you will have to play your part.
• Learn from past experiences and look to improve things.
• Discuss your issues with your spouse; it can help to win their trust. 
• Respect your in-laws even you don’t like them.
• Understand that you have to take the challenge of a new family. 
• Always be ready for new surprises that might end up your marriage. 
• Never take love for granted and enjoy the lovemaking process.
• If you have any conflicts, try to resolve them peacefully.
• Patience is the key to married life.
• Never allow anger to take control of you.
• Always keep improving yourself during this transition period. 
• Learn new skills to live a happy married life. 
• Learn to respect and love each other. Don’t follow on specific principles. 
• Focus on the needs of your spouse.
• Spend quality time when you are together. 
• Define your roles and perform them wisely and perfectly.
• Your marriage needs full attention and care for proper growth. 

So, by doing these practices, you can’t only survive your first year of marriage, but also you can live a happy married life. 

7 Tips That Can Help to Get Through First Year of Marriage

The first year of your marriage will predict your future. You can seek the help of a specialist to make your marriage successful. So, let’s have a look at some tips that can help you in the first year of marriage. 

• Make your house a home.

You must have a space where both of you can spend time together. It matters a lot because you don’t want your house to look like an office or hotel. You should create a space where a new couple can get away from the rest of the world. 

• Don’t forget romance.

It is French advice. Keep your phone away when you are on the dining table. You can make it more worth watching if you are well dressed. In this way, you can win the heart of your spouse, and your partner should have to do the same as well. 

• Take care of yourself.

During the first year of marriage, the wife tries hard to nurture her husband and relationship. While doing this, she can easily lose yourself in marriage. Take the much-needed breaks to nurture yourself. 

• Keep doing adventures.

The first year after marriage isn’t the easy thing, so you can make it easy and joy able by having adventures. It’s not all about adventures at the bed; you can go for cuisines and dates. You can climb a mountain together. 

• Give freedom to your spouse to say wrong things.

Sometimes both of you say things that are hurtful and thoughtless. Sometimes you will have to tell a lie instead of being brutally honest. Most of the time, you will have to be silent. In married life, forgive your spouse for saying something wrong. Allow each other to apologize and grow. 

• Financial planning 

Marriage is all about responsibilities. Make financial planning together. It will help you to fight in bad times, and you can enjoy good times together.

After marriage, the debt of your spouse becomes yours, and you share happiness. So, to face the challenge of the first year after marriage, make financial plans wisely. 

• Gratitude

When you are showing appreciation for your partner, and then practice gratitude. Couples need to look for positive things instead of targeting negative things. You should say “Thank You” because it makes other partner feels appreciated. Be courteous to each other and ignore imperfections. It is not essential to show gratitude every time. You can’t imagine this kind of attitude can help you to grow your relationship. By doing this, you can get through the first year of marriage. 

Conclusion

How to get through the first year of marriage? Most newlyweds ask this question. Marriage is all about making adjustments. You will have to sacrifice lots of things. Your way of thinking gets changed. You look at things from different perspectives. You care about your kids, career, and spouse more than yourself. As a result, you lost yourself in marriage. 

You will be facing lots of new challenges during the first year of marriage. So get ready for those challenges in advance. If you can follow the above-mentioned tips, you can not only survive the first year of marriage but also you can live a happy married life ahead. 

The social butterflies of the world, the life of the party, the networking guru. 

What extroverts do so as easily as breathing – things like selling themselves fantastically well in interviews, introverts would probably find it a challenge, and vice versa.

What challenges can extroverts potentially face though in a romantic relationship, especially if they’re in a partnership with introverts? 

Most prominently, extroverts are probably constantly struggling with trying to juggle everything at a time.     

Extroverts Needs to Strike A Balance with Socializing 

Extroverts recharge around people, and so naturally, they need to be around people constantly. 

It might help if their partners are also extroverts because then the understanding is seamless. 

• If you’re an introvert dating an extrovert: Even with social settings or date nights, your extroverted partners might prefer meeting you together with a bunch of their friends, or yours. Being an introvert, you might not fancy the idea of not having your quiet time.

In such a scenario, do lovingly inform your partner that you might find social anxiety to always be around people and that you’d like time alone with just him/her. It is then up to your partner to adjust to you as well. A nice balance is healthy. 

• If you’re the extrovert: Meet your introverted partner halfway. Feel free to invite them to every gathering you’re going to, but leave the choice up to them as to whether they wish to attend, or if they prefer to spend a night home alone from time to time. 

Extroverts Need to Strike A Balance with Quality Time 

This is a big obstacle in the introvert-extrovert relationship dynamic especially if the extrovert is constantly bouncing from party to party. In a scenario where their introverted partner’s love language is Quality Time, this difference only becomes more glaring and might threaten the foundation of this relationship. 

• If you’re an introvert dating an extrovert: Clearly articulate your needs to your partner, and mutually agree to an acceptable amount of time for his/her undivided attention. 
• If you’re the extrovert: It is vital in every relationship for both parties to feel loved and supported. If your partner has communicated with you a need, do your best to adjust and provide that need, while striking a nice balance in which you still feel like you have time to meet your friends to catch up. Setting aside a day once a week just for your partner might be a good idea.

Extroverts Need to Strike A Balance with Talking vs. Listening 

Extroverts love to talk. On the flip side, that might mean they need to be paired up more with listeners, as extroverted people don’t naturally excel in that area. 

• If you’re an introvert dating an extrovert: If you know your partner’s attention span is short, and if the topic is of paramount importance, begin the conversation emphasizing just that so it’s easier for your partner to recognize and warm the listener’s seat.
• If you’re the extrovert: Remind yourself once in a while to let your partner have the floor and be the center of attention. Just take a step back and listen to how their day was, how they feel, etc, and just be supportive. Such a gesture could strengthen relationships.

Extroverts Need to Balance Between Affectionate And Controlling 

Extroverts tend to be more affectionate than introverts and can be viewed as a threat to a relationship when they become possessive or controlling. They can be annoying in regards to needing constant reassurance from their partner and can become jealous of other people’s attention.

• If you’re an introvert dating an extrovert: Take extra time to understand the personality traits of your partner and what kind of personal connection and social connection they need.
• If you’re the extrovert: Understand your natural tendencies and that introverted tendencies do not spend much time entertaining your needs. That is a difference between introverts and you. 

Extroverts Might Be Too Outspoken 

Extroverts are more likely to be the first to bring up potential problems in a relationship and confront their partner. This can be helpful or unhelpful depending on the person and the nature of their relationships. It’s up to the introvert to discern the difference and decide how to address the issues.

• If you’re an introvert dating an extrovert: One major advantage you have is the ability to think about solutions without needing a confrontation or acknowledgment. Let your partner know you are aware of the issue and share your thoughts when ready.
• If you’re the extrovert: Make use of your partner’s listening abilities to sort out your thought but do not force the issue. Your partner will be thinking about the problem and how to address the issue.

Extroverts Might Struggle to Complete Projects 

Extroverts tend to be starters, not finishers. It would help greatly if their partner is the opposite in this aspect – people who are patient and willing to take the project to the finish line alone.  

• If you’re an introvert dating an extrovert: If you’re both planning a trip, for example, do understand your extroverted partner might show enthusiasm at the beginning, then struggle to sit down for the nitty gritty planning as they’re probably onto the next thing to get excited about. Do your best not to take this personally – it has likely nothing to do with you or the trip and more to do with their personalities. 

This is where perhaps you fill the gap and allow both of you to succeed as a couple by leaning on each other’s strengths.

• If you’re the extrovert: Understand that while you might find certain tasks difficult or tedious, the beauty of being in a partnership is doing things together to create shared memories. Your partner would likely appreciate your contributions.

There are countless introvert-extrovert relationships out there that have not only survived, but thrived despite their differences. Understanding, patience, and communication are all vital. 

Differences that can co-exist harmoniously arguably forge stronger partnerships than those pairings that are more similar; you stand to learn and grow from each other more, and your strengths and weaknesses complement. 

Ultimately, if both parties are willing to accept their partner’s flaws, embrace their strengths, and show mutual respect for differing beliefs and opinions, that already sets the stage for a very beautiful relationship indeed – one where hearts sing and love triumphs.

When you feel your marriage is falling apart, then what will you do to save your marriage? It can be a horrible experience if things are not working well for you after marriage. Both of you might want to live together, but you have done too many wrong things that it seems difficult to save a marriage. In married life, you can get things back on track. When couples have tried everything to save their marriage, then they give up rather than saving a marriage. In this article, we will discuss how to save a marriage that is falling apart?

10 Ways That Can Help to Save a Marriage That Is Falling Apart

So, follow below-given ways to save a marriage that is falling apart. 

• Take Action Early

It is the most common mistake that the majority of couples make. They start dealing with problems when they are out of control. So, my suggestion is to take timely actions if you want to save your marriage. Otherwise, you might reach the stage where you might feel hopeless. When you take action early, you can get things back on track easily. Whenever you see something that isn’t right for your relationship, take immediate action. The most important thing to save your relationship is to be honest, and communicate as much as you can. In this way, you can save a marriage that is falling apart. 

• Start Viewing Things Differently

It is a common mistake that we commit. We both see things from different angles. One thing that husband does might be wrong in view of wife and vice versa. When you argue with your wife, you want to be right every time instead choose a way to make her happy. Both of you are right on your perspective but try to understand what your partner is saying. You have to give up such an attitude that you are always right. You can choose different modes of expression to prevent things from getting escalated. When you get yourself out of negative emotions, you can feel happier and better. So, start viewing things differently because it can help to save a marriage that is falling apart. 

• Try To Find Out What Has Made Your Marriage Feel Broken

The best thing you can do is to find the causes that have ruined your marriage life. There might be lots of reasons for a failed marriage. When you identify the causes, it becomes easy for you to fix things. Some common reasons why marriage falls apart:

• Communication Gap
• Infidelity
• Lack of care and affection
• Crisis 

When you have found out the causes, try to address them and save your marriage from falling apart. 

• Reconsider Three Pillars of a Marriage

Marriage has three pillars, such as intimacy, emotional connection, and mutual benefits. You can live a healthy and happy married life if all the pillars are aligned. Even when two pillars are aligned, it means your marriage is very good. In the case of one pillar still, it can be considered as sustainable. You will have to work on these pillars and get them aligned to save your marriage from falling apart. 

• Talk to Each Other

As it is mentioned above, the communication gap can be the cause of a broken marriage. So, communicate with each other. Make sure that you are communicating with love and patience. Don’t forget the element of respect. When you try to be respectful, things start working well for you. Increased communication helps you to reconnect and save your marriage. Show patience while dealing with problems, and you can expect a better time ahead. In this way, you can save your marriage that is falling apart. 

• Don’t Let Distractions to Get in the Way of Your Relationship.

You might have a career, job, and kids, but don’t allow these things to get in the way of your marriage life. You will have to deal with lots of challenges, so stay aligned through good and bad times. Try to find out ways to date again, talk more, and find solutions to problems. Dating can help to save your marriage. When you schedule dates, you meet each other with a free mind. You can feel good and can save your marriage falling apart. 

• Find a Way to Connect Again 

Consider what you will have to do to connect again. Plan a trip and make sure that you are only two during this trip. When you find ways to connect, you can save your broken marriage. Sometimes it’s all about reflecting things that can help to save marriage and results in a long-lasting relationship. 

• Hire a Marriage Counselor

Too much anger and arguments can destroy any relationship. If you feel you have done a significant amount of damage to your relationship and it can’t be repaired, then seek the help of a relationship specialist. For example, if you have passed one negative comment or argument, then you need to have three positive experiences to get things right. When you want to save your marriage, you need a professional service. Many couples avoid this for many reasons. If you have tried everything and things are not getting well, then seek the help of a specialist, and believe me, he can help you to save your marriage from falling apart. 

Conclusion

How to save a marriage that is falling apart? At some point in time, every couple found himself in this place. They try to find out what they can do to save their marriages from falling apart. You can get your relationship back on track by following simple ways. Try to find out the causes that have put your relationship on the verge of break-up. Now, address these causes and get your relationship back on track. You can easily save your relationship if you have a will to do. If you have tried everything and still things are not getting right, leave the relationship, and move away. 

If you are in a relationship without love, your relation might feel hopeless, and you feel helpless.

I would suggest instead of wondering how to survive in a marriage without love, focus on what to do when there is no love in a marriage.

Remember, once you love each other, but now there is no love in your relationship. Can a marriage survive without love? It depends on lots of factors. If you both want to carry your relationship, then you can fall in love again. It requires dedication from both parties to live a happy life again. 

Signs That You Are Not Happy In a Loveless Marriage 

When you are in a loveless marriage, some indicators show you are not happy in this relationship. Let’s have a look at these signs. 

• You are not attracted to sex anymore.
• You would have nothing to say to each other.
• You are physical with each other, but mentally and emotionally, you are far apart. 
• You are actively and intentionally ignoring your spouse.
• You are more concerned about the needs and problems of other people than your spouse. 
• The distance between both of you keeps on increasing, and you want some magic to get things back on track. 
• You start enjoying your life without your spouse.
• You stop fighting and arguing. 
• Someone might have destroyed your relationship. 
• You are no longer ready to listen. 
• You love to set a relationship with other females.
• You prefer your friends instead of your life partner.
• You are no more spending quality time together.
• Both of you are not interested in dates anymore.
• Both of you are not the priority of each other. 
• You start to feel that you are controlled by someone else. 
• Your partner is not willing to get any help to save this relationship. 

All these are the signs that you are living in a loveless marriage. Now, the question is, can a marriage survive without love? Yes, it can if both of you are willing. You can fall in love again and get things back on track. 

4 Ways to Fix a Marriage without Love

Although it is not an easy task to survive a marriage without love, there is nothing impossible in this world. The word impossible itself says, “I am possible.” So, follow below-given ways to fix a marriage without love. You can get things back on track by working on the basics. It’s never too late in this relationship. 

• Get Back to Basics

If there is no love in a marriage, there would be no happiness. Try to remember that first moment when you met for the first time. Find out that one thing that made you fall in love with each other. There was a time when both of you were happy and in love. 

Try to find out that good time. Just remember those things when everything was working for you smoothly, and you were living a happy life. You can get back to basics and fall in love again. Use those thoughts and energy when you were in the early days of a relationship. When you find out those things that bring you together, you can live a happy life again. 

• Add Excitement to Your Relationship 

When you follow the same boring routine each day, it can be said that you have fallen out of love. Try to add some excitement to your relationship and look for physical intimacy at one night. Plan a date night for no reason. When you add a spark to your boring and loveless relationship, believe me, it can do magic. 

During the date, introduce yourself to your spouse and remember why and how you meet in the first place. Always keep planning something new, as it will help you to keep your energy high, and you can bring love back again in your relationship. 

• Start Communicating

If you want your marriage to work again, then you will have to do this. It is the most important way that can help you to get things back on track. Things get worse when you stop talking effectively. When you are distracted by other factors such as kids, career, and friends, then you become strangers for each other. 

Start communicating with each other. Discuss your family and future plans. Make it your daily routine to communicate with each other even you do this only for a few minutes each night. Talk about things that can bring your relationship back on track. You will start to see your relationship in a whole new light. Communication is the key element of a successful marriage, so start talking as it will help to improve things between you. 

• Make Each Other a Priority

When you are already living in a relationship without love, you need to prioritize each other. You need to make time for each other. You can even plan dates or tours where you can spend time together. You might have lots of things to do but stop for a moment and give your relationship the priority. When you do this, another person feels appreciated and happy. 

When you make each other a priority, you can find ways to communicate with each other, spend time together, and bring love back to your relationship. 

Conclusion

Can a marriage survive without love? What will you do when you realize the love once you shared with your spouse is disappeared? Yes, a marriage can survive without love if you both want to carry on this relation. You can easily get things back on track by following simple ways. Communication is the key to any relationship. Prioritize your relationship. Get back to basics and know from where you get into this relationship. Bring excitement to your boring relationship. There is always time to get things right. So yes, if you want to save your relationship, a marriage can survive without love. 

All of us think that when we fall in love, that’s enough to build a relationship.

No, we can add extra fire in our relationship.

The best love marriage app can help to organize things. Adventurous people must try these apps:

1. Anomo
2. JSwipe
3. Match 
4. Meetup
5. OkCupid
6. Tinder 
7. The Couple
8. Raft
9. Between

In this modern world, there is not a single relationship that isn’t affected by technology. These romantic apps can help you to charge your relationship, plan romantic evenings, organize money, and increase your sex life. Whether you are engaged or already married, you can find the best apps according to your needs.  

Best Love Matchmaking Apps

These apps can help you to find the perfect match according to your interests. You can use these apps for fun as well. 

• Anomo

It is the best app for shy people who want to be connected with people while still being protected. This app will connect you with nearby users who are using this app. You can invite four other people to play an icebreaker game. With the help of this game, you can find new people and app learns your interests and next time you will find people in which you are interested. By using this app, you can share your personal details, experience, and do the chatting. 

Download – You can download this app from Google Play and App Store for free. 

• JSwipe

It isn’t easy to find a mate, and when it comes to choosing a mate from the same tribe, it becomes harder. You can use this app to find someone whom you can bring to a home. Moreover, this app presents a match for users, and you can message each other to see how things go. Don’t take too long to decide because after a few days, messages will disappear. 

Download – You can download this app from App Store for free. 

• Match 

It is a tried and true app, and it has been pairing people since 1995. It has 2.3 million subscribers, and more than 82% of those subscribers are above 30 years of age. It uses photos of users to find a reliable match. So, if you are looking for love marriage, place your best picture on the profile. You can use this service for free if you just want to look, but if you want to play as well, then you will have to pay. 

Download – You can download this app from Google Play and App Store for free. 

• Meetup

In this app, you might get surprised to see group activity on the list. You don’t know the power of common interest and passion. It has over 19 million users and 500,000 meet-ups per month. So, the chances are high that you will find someone according to your interests and passion. If you love adventures, then use its different features to join a wide range of get-togethers. Moreover, you can convert your meet-up into a life-long relationship. If you are unable to find the perfect match, then at least you can have fun by doing something you love. 

Download – You can download this app from Google Play and App Store for free. 

• OkCupid

Meeting people using these apps can be easy, but finding a perfect match is hard. Don’t worry; this app can help you to put bad matches out of the equation. They will ask you lot of questions and then convert them to find a perfect partner. This app uses your data to find a perfect match for dates. You can use this app to share photos, and co do messaging. More importantly, this app is free. Some people want to see the private skin of their partner, so they will have to take strict actions. 

Download – You can download this app from Google Play and App Store for free. 

• Tinder 

It is the best love marriage app on the earth right now. Tinder has made dating easy and accessible by using a mate-browsing interface. You can use a finger to attract the attention of someone. More importantly, this app connects you with Facebook and make your picture and some data visible to people. It keeps your private information secure. 

You can flip cards to find a perfect match. When you swipe the card to the left it means rejecting them, and when you swipe the card to the right, it means you give them a like. If he/she does the same or gives you a like then you become a match and can message each other. Tinder has some privacy protection features. Otherwise, people would be saying dirty things. 

Download – You can download this app from Google Play and App Store for free. 

• The Couple

This app is free and allows you to customize and celebrate your love. By using this app, you can set a reminder for special dates. Moreover, you can personalize the lock screen. Moreover, it offers an excellent feature of the calculator to calculate the days you spend together. So, you can celebrate each day for celebration of your love. It is the best love marriage app for couples. 

Download – You can download this app from iTunes and App Store for free. 

• Raft

Couples blame each other when they forget their special dates. Now, you wouldn’t forget your special nights. By using this app, your plans are synchronized, and you also know the plans of your partner. 

Download – You can download this app from iTunes and App Store for free. 

• Between

It is the best memory sharing app. You can share pictures, and private messages, and your sharing will be between you. You can use a shared calendar with special dates and share memories. Between allows you to keep the privacy of your relationship between both of you. 

Download – You can download this app from iTunes and App Store for free. 

Conclusion 

We are living in a world of technology, and people are looking for the best love marriage app to find the perfect match. So, you can find the best app according to your needs. You can use these apps for dating, planning dinner, or surprise evening parties.